July 2, 2006
Tonight I was putting Katherine to bed. Trying to distract
her from the monsters by talking about all of the nice things she can dream
about and telling Teddy and Lion to keep the bad dreams away. She was almost
asleep when she heard the “pop! Pop! Pop!” if nearby fireworks going off. Of
course she woke up and this is the conversation we had.
K: “what was that knock knock sound?”
Me: “it was fireworks”
K: “why are there fireworks?”
Me: “because it’s almost
K: “America? I don’t know her”
Me: “
K: (I could see her trying to process this) “our house has a
birthday? Nooooo. That’s silly! I never heard of a house having a birthday”
Me: “No honey. Our country. We live in a house, in
K: “is our country a dog?”
Me: “uh. No”
K: “do we get to do fireworks too?”
Me: “do you want to do fireworks?”
K: (nodding excitedly) “Yes. Is it a rule (pronounced whul)
that we do fireworks?”
Me: “not a rule but we can. I’ll get on the internet tonight
and find a good explanation about the 4th of July and why we
celebrate it and we can learn all about it tomorrow ok?”
K: “ok.”
How does that brain work?
July 20, 2006
Let’s take a little test to see if you’ve really been paying
attention.
When did this appear in my online journal?
“I expect that Lauren
will be my exciting baby. The one who I will be spending time with in the
emergency room. :-)”
Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Right! We have a winner. It
was in January 2005 immediately following her birth. Now, I ask, do you think
that was:
a) A
mother’s insight into her daughter’s future based on the trouble said daughter
gave mom in utero & labor.
b) Just
a lucky guess
c) A
self fulfilling prophesy
d) What
my fortune cookie said that day
e) All
of the above
Ok, I don’t really have an answer but all I have to say is
this kid is going to be the death of me. Today, she took off running into K’s
room and slammed the door. I hear giggling and that’s never good. I go in there
and the little monkey is up on her sisters loft bed jumping! Yesterday I caught her standing in the
bathroom sink. This afternoon she was standing on the toilet and she’s always
trying to climb into the dishwasher and onto the dining room table. What, the
ground isn’t good enough for you dearie? Seriously?
Besides the minor
heart attacks she’s giving me, things are good. She’s talking more and being
quite the cutie pie in general. She is still very strong willed and can throw a
tantrum to rival the best. She’s trying to jump, enjoys dancing and coloring, peek
a boo, chase, hide and seek, coffee (or anything that you have) is a treat,
she’s getting more teeth and being a pretty good kid.
Katherine is writing her name. Nope, not in a straight line
silly but she does have the letters of her name down to a recognizable pattern.
Sure, her R’s look like a big circle with two legs sticking out of the bottom
but she’s sticking with it and I know what it is. I asked if she’d like to go
by a shorter name (I thought it may make it less frustrating for her to write
her name) and she chose Katie, so now she’s writing that on all of her work. She’s
also starting to read. When she’s able to concentrate for a bit, she can sound
out the letters of the word. She has a bit of trouble putting the sounds
together but if she keeps at it she can get it. She read cat and ball
yesterday. I was so proud of her.
Her pictures are becoming more recognizable. People have
eyes, noses and mouths in pretty much the correct spots. They have two legs and
arms, hair, circles for hands and feet. They lack bodies which is kind of
freaky to me but whatever. All of her people look the same but she
differentiates them (usually mommy, daddy, Lauren and Katie) by color or
size. My favorite are the extra circles that
sometimes appear on the bodies. Sometimes where elbows should be, sometimes
near the head area…those just crack me up…the wandering body circles. LOL I
lied. My very favorite is when she brings a bunch of wiggly lines with some
letters interspersed within and reads it to me. It’s usually “I love you very
much mommy” or “I love all of my friends”. Awww.
We signed Katherine up for dance classes. It’s a 10 month
program and it’s “creative movement” which is basically ballet for dummies….oh
wait….not dummies, for people with short attention spans. My bad. I went and
picked up her outfit today, all pink and girly and outrageously expensive, and
left it out as a surprise for her when I picked her up from school. She saw it,
ripped off all of her school clothes and put it on then proceeded to prance
around the house for a good 30 minutes. She looked like a little piece of pink
cotton candy that has escaped the spinner and was floating around, bouncing as
it catches air. Man was she happy. And can I say that those tiny little ballet
shoes are just too much? God she’s a cutie!
When I picked her up from school today, I asked another one
of her teachers if Katherine was doing ok. She said yes. “She’s quite bright
and very polite. She tends to hang back and observe more than most of the other
kids and when she does get into a group, she leans towards hanging out with the
boys.” Hmmmm…so what the teacher is telling me is that my daughter is just like
me?
I never have gotten along with most women. Frankly, the
reason I even ask about her socialization is because I am beginning to come to
terms with the fact that I may suffer from social anxiety. From my reading, it
seems that it can be genetic and lord knows I don’t want to pass that on to the
girls. I’m just doing my uncomfortable best by taking her to playgroups (which
I despise), school (which is good since I don’t have to talk to anyone really),
the indoor playground and other places to encourage socialization. I’m not
enjoying it at all but I’m going to do it for both of them. I seriously doubt
I’ll ever be head of the PTA, welcome wagon or anything like that though.
And
as long as we are talking about my freakishness…how ‘bout this. This is an
excerpt from one of my emails to an old friend who is now a mom. I got kind of depressed today. I had to go to the Gyn for my
annual exam and it's the same office as my
In
fact, I didn’t really start to feel better about it until I re-read my birth
story. That made me feel much, much
better. It really is weird how you forget the really horrible parts of pregnancy and L&D. I guess it’s a good
way to ensure that women get themselves into that spot again. I’m really glad
that I chronicled every nasty/embarrassing/scary moment now. It was a really
good cure for that wicked bout of baby fever.
Oh well, enough about that. On to our upcoming fun. Amy and
Shawn and their girls Sophia and Nora are coming to town on Saturday for
Shawn’s High School reunion. They are staying with us and Woody and I will have
all 4 girls for the night. YIKES! I’m hoping that since they are all so close
in age, that they will entertain each other. We’ll see. I know that Katherine
is looking forward to her friend staying the night.
When they leave on Sunday, the girls and I will get on a
plane to go to
We are gearing up for Katherine’s 4th birthday
too. Yes, I’m in total denial about it but it’s going to happen weather I
recognize it or not. I know that I say it a lot but this year has really flown
by. I swear it was just yesterday that we had her 3rd birthday
party.
Amy called and asked if we’d be interested in joining them
at the Disney resort for a two night stay with the girls. Sophia’s birthday is
on the 4th so to celebrate we are going to take both girls to the
bibbity boppity boutique for hairdo’s, makeup and manicures. It will be too too
really. I called yesterday to make the appointments for Princess Katherine and
Princess Sophia. I’m looking forward to that too. We think we will probably
just hang by the pool and do the salon one day and then go to Sea World the
next day. I want to see the new Shamu show.
That’s my novel for tonight. I am astonished that Lauren
slept long enough for me to write it all. LOL Since the rest of the month looks
pretty busy, I will probably not have any more journal updates until next
month…but then I’ll try to include all of the vacation stuff.
July 30, 2006
We just got home from our trip to visit Grandma Nana and
Grandpa in
Katherine really enjoyed flying. On the return flight, once
we got in the air, she announced in her highest and loudest voice "I
fahted mommy" giggle giggle squeal.
She did that twice
more. Then she had to go see the bathroom. That was fun. She and I in that tiny
little stall while some stranger held the sleeping Lauren for me. ![]()
But she lost one of her stuffed animals so we were the last people off of the
plane. The pilots were just leaving and I asked if she could peek into the
cockpit. They said sure and actually put her in the pilots seat, made the plane
talk to her and made the wheel (or whatever it's called) shake while she was
"steering" the plane. It was awesome! I really didn't think that
they'd let us do that because of the security, but they were so nice. She was
excited beyond belief
July 31, 2006
At daycare, they say grace before lunch. She wanted to say
grace today so we sat at the table and she said "gone is great, gone is
good, let us thank him for our food, amen" Then I said "dig in!"
and she looked at me with "mom, you are nuts" face and said "no
mommy, not dig in. It's AMEN!".
Bwahahaha! I’m working in the office just now and I hear
Katherine tell her daddy “I want to be a fireman when I grow up…or a horse”
What a goofball
Hooo…these kids are on a roll today. I was just playing Peek
a boo with Laruen. She ripped the blanket off of her head and said
“beek-ee-loooooo” with an overabundance of glee. Hysterical.
Lauren is learning her colors. With Katherine, everything
was purple .For Lauren everything is green (geeeeen). It is her default reply.
Often she will mull it over for a few seconds and say the correct color. She
also says ”hey!” a lot. Anytime she feels she’s been wronged, which is quite
often when you are a toddler. We’ve been trying to catch it on tape because
it’s awfully cute. As of this moment she is not complying.